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- Is Dealing With A Man Who Has Children By Multiple Women Too Much Of A Headache?
- I love someone who has 2 baby mama's?
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And, how does him incurring 20k in debt becomes oppression and discrimination toward him as a black man? I hope you will invest in more common sense and not just focus on how much money you got, your great career, the house you own, and the material things you can get for yourself, and you neglect yourself spiritually or fail to use the basic common sense you have.
If you have your —ish together, and you are able to create a financially secure life, including investing in yourself, then why is it so difficult or an unexpected reality to want that from a partner, a man, a man who is responsible, financially secure, competent, good with money, intelligent, smart, has his own house, can take care of you, and not have several children by several different women? Yes, there are men out there who are like this.
You owe yourself more than that. You are worth more than that. Yes, the sexual chemistry is there. He is no fool. Why would he pass you up when you have all the trappings? He is a liability. He is not worth it. Take the time to continue to work on you, build your life, your finances, and your portfolio. Become a mogul and you will attract a mogul. Your focus is investing in a man who can do absolutely nothing for you.
You have increased wealth, but want to engage with a bankrupt man. He is bankrupt financially, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. Hey Bossip Fam, what do you think? S hare your opinions and thoughts below! Frankly, none of this adds up to a man with much character or backbone. It's your decision, but it really sounds as though you are in love with the idea of love, rather than the man himself.
All you need to learn you will see in this book: Despite what these other poeple say, I was in a situation similar to this. I don't see nothing wrong with it if you are both in love and is willing to make this work. My relationship didn't work out and i found out he was still talking to his baby mama on the side. It always made me seem that they will always have something together.
But i just had to let that go because i wanted to be with a man that we can have our first child together. If you love him that much you should go ahead. But the 2 kids baby mamas is not good because he's going to have to take care of his kids and he may pay more attention to them and not you, cause he's so busy providing for his children. And it will only be just alittle time that you and him can spend together.
Is Dealing With A Man Who Has Children By Multiple Women Too Much Of A Headache? | MadameNoire
But other thn that go ahead!! Someone in my twitter feed posted this question so I came to give it a look. I'm definitely enjoying the information. I'm bookmarking and will be tweeting it to my followers! Well geez this guy obviously has no sense of responsibility! He should have learned the first time that not using protection was going to make a baby. If he had no intention of staying with these women who bore his children, how long do you think he'll stick to you whom he has no child attachment to?
How long before one of those women call him back?
Is Dealing With A Man Who Has Children By Multiple Women Too Much Of A Headache?
Or even better, ask for monetary support? What a deadbeat loser! No, because I wouldn't want to be the 3rd "baby mamma" what's with that stupid description anyway? Sep 5, 8.
Thanks x 56 Skeptical x 7 LOL! Sep 5, 9.
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Thanks x 44 LOL! Sep 5, It's his child, he has a right to see him. Doesn't mean you have to have a romantic relationship with him though.
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- I have a child by a guy with multiple baby mama's and currently have multiple women pregnant.
Why didn't you think about this before you got pregnant? Thanks x 96 Skeptical x 2 LOL! Meh, might as well move on.
I love someone who has 2 baby mama's?
Just flat out irresponsible behavior. I just couldn't believe what I just read.
He is the father you chose for your child and he has a right to be in his child's life. You cannot escape the choice you made for a father for your child by not allowing him to be in the child's life.
Find a way to co-parent with him if he is willing. Thanks x 95 Disagree! Thanks x 19 LOL! Thanks x 14 LOL! Why, oh why did you even entertain him? I really have to ask if you knew about his multiple kids before or after your child? It's always fascinating to me that women find out about dudes being bums and fuckbois but continue to entertain them?
I need to know what your motivation was and how you thought this was a good idea. Not trying to shade you, but as a person who would make different decisions if in this situation, I am always interested in a different perspective. I mean that respectfully, of course. So this "man" has neither the time or funds to be a father to your child. Sounds like you're making your first smart decision by walking the fuck away.
He was clearly trifling towards you but that doesn't mean that he would do the same to his child. Also, him and your child will develop a bond if he is around which might solidify in the future. You said that he wasn't stable NOW, but that doesn't mean that he wont ever be! Thanks x 9 WTF! Thanks x 31 LOL! May the Lord be with you Grab your edge control cream for the mess that is about to commence!! Thanks x 44 Disagree!